Confession and repentance involve:
- real acknowledgment of the offense
- remorse (beyond “I’m sorry I got caught”) for the pain it caused
- restitution where appropriate
- renewal of character and lifestyle.
– Driscoll, Mark and Gary Breshears, Vintage Church: Timeless Truths and Timely Methods, Crossway Books, Wheaton, IL, 2008, p. 170