Self-Hatred is a Barrier to Love

God’s mission in the world and his mission in his relationship with the individual believer is essentially a mission of overcoming self-hatred.  For self-hatred is a barrier to love.  We hate other people not because we love ourselves too much but because we are no able to love ourselves enough.  We fear and distrust them because we feel inadequate in our relationships to them; we hide behind anger and hatred because in some deep recess of our personality we do not think we are good enough for them.

– Andrew Greeley

as quoted by Brennan Manning, The Importance of Being Foolish: How to Think Like Jesus, HarperOne, copyright 2005, page 107

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